June 13, 2025

981: Why Do People Hide Their Mental Health Struggles?

981: Why Do People Hide Their Mental Health Struggles?

Lannette West joins The Brian Nichols Show for a deeply honest conversation about reality TV, mental illness, addiction, trauma, and how sharing your story can be the first step toward healing.

What happens when reality TV meets real mental health talk?


Ever wonder what it’s like to go from a quiet IT career to starring on a national reality dating show… while battling bipolar disorder, surviving abuse, and beating cancer? This episode of The Brian Nichols Show is unlike anything we’ve done before. No politics. No punditry. Just a raw, real, and radically important conversation about mental health, survival, and the strength it takes to own your story.

Studio Sponsor: Cardio Miracle - "Unlock the secret to a healthier heart, increased energy levels, and transform your cardiovascular fitness like never before.": CardioMiracle.com/TBNS In today’s episode, Brian sits down with Lannette West - a single mom, IT professional, and former cast member on TLC’s MILF Manor - for a jaw-dropping discussion that goes way beyond reality TV. They dive into how Lannette went from a random DM to filming on set, what the show got right and wrong, and the unexpected layers of authenticity behind the scenes.


But the heart of the conversation isn’t the drama - it’s the honesty. Lannette opens up about living with bipolar disorder, her struggles with addiction, and how unresolved trauma from domestic abuse shaped the way she approached relationships, motherhood, and even the lens through which she viewed herself. It’s real. It’s vulnerable. And it’s the kind of talk we need more of.


The two also explore why today’s hyper-connected world leaves people lonelier than ever, how parenting has shifted across generations, and how too many people now identify with their mental health challenges instead of fighting to grow through them. You’ll hear personal stories from Brian and Lannette about how they overcame their own demons—and what finally helped them feel like themselves again.


This is one of those episodes that sticks with you. If you've ever struggled, felt isolated, or just needed to hear someone say “you’re not alone,” this one’s for you.



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